Alone or Lonely?…Relationships and self-love

Relationships are not that easy. Finding your way through a relationship first needs dedication in finding your way through your own relationship with yourself… Self-love.

It isn’t always that everyone finds the love of their life on the first try. Sometimes, we are single and maybe not ready for relationships. Those are very good moments to practice self-love and more autonomous decision-making when it comes to living a healthy lifestyle, mentally, physically, and emotionally. A holistic lifestyle.

Alone or lonely - Live best life venture

Have you ever gone to a cafe or restaurant and seen someone sitting alone and wondered why?

Why do we do that? Why do we wonder? Is it because it is uncommon to see someone take themselves on a date, or is it because deep down inside, we imagine that that person is not alone by choice?

Society has taught us that being alone in such settings is unusual and is only done when we do not have anyone to share those outings with… but is that not wrong?

Spending time with yourself and wanting to enjoy a meal or just a drink in your own company should never come with any worries.

If you are single and stay home because you are worried, what people may say, you might end up being lonely… instead of just alone.

It is, therefore, important to learn to enjoy your own company. Learning to live with yourself and enjoy life is actually the most important lifestyle you can practice. There are numerous benefits that come with alone-time.

Some of them are:-

  • Finding out what really matters to you so that you know your boundaries. Boundaries are not set in stone but they are guidelines that help you navigate through life without just being a follower.
  • Knowing that you are capable of living alone and you only choose to be with someone else because you enjoy being in the relationship
  • Learning self-love helps you live more autonomously and means that your choices are not made out of peer pressure or any other outer factor.

Enjoy your own company - Live best life venture

There are many more reasons that we should learn to be in our own company before we get ready to be with someone else.

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